21 Things Women Actually Want for Valentine’s Day

Don’t waste your time on flowers and chocolates, what we really want is a wristwatch! Give her the gift of time with a classy Nixon watch, like this Clique Leather Watch.

Give her a mini-spa day in a jar. This sweet little pick-me-up is just as good as a venti latte from Starbucks, sans calories! Every woman should have this secret weapon stashed away for emergency replenishment. A must-have winter weather product, KORRES Greek Yoghurt Probiotic SuperDose Face Mask tackles skin dryness like no one’s business.

Make mornings more romantic with these face-shaped pair of smooching porcelain mugs.

What’s the key to a woman’s heart? A new robe, like this Repurposed Cotton Sari Robe from Uncommon Goods.

Subscription boxes are the gift that keeps on giving. Remind her how romantic you are year-round with a Birchbox subscription. A variety of niche and high-end beauty will be delivered to her doorstep monthly. (Ladies, Birchbox also carries grooming boxes for dudes.)

Butter her up with nourishing repair body butter. Why the $50+ price tag? Because it’s been blessed by Gweneth Paltrow, and therefore, she will love it.

Bring the salon to her with Dermstore’s exclusive six-piece Oribe x Harry Josh Blowout Kit. This limited-edition blow drying kit includes five full-size products from Oribe and Harry Josh, including shampoo, conditioner, heat styling spray, a professional hair dryer that’s handmade in France, and a round styling brush. It comes with a bag for gifting and storage.

You can’t go wrong with a bottle of her favorite fragrance. Just make sure it’s one she already likes—the guessing game is no good when it comes to olfactories.

Give her a rubdown with this CBD salve and you may find yourself on the receiving end of your own very special Vday present. The therapeutic terpene blend does wonders to soothe aches and pains.

Lovepop Flowers last way longer than a regular bouquet. Might as well send one to mom, too!

Melt any music lover’s heart with this card from Paper Source that reads, “and suddenly all the love songs were about you.”

If you’re going to go with a box of chocolates, make it a very fancy box, like the La Maison du Chocolat Valentine’s Day Gift Box.

Speaking of chocolates, no Valentine’s Day gift roundup would be complete without the queen of chocolate herself, Lady Godiva. Googoo for Godiva? Check out this gift basket.

The way to a woman’s heart is through her stomach. Give her the gift of Goldbelly, the company that delivers gourmet foods to your door.

Cookies = love. Milk Bar cookies = true love.

Bouquets are great, but orchids last way longer.

Baubles are always welcome, and this ombre eternity band is no exception.

Engrave this Bespoke Wilder Heart Necklace with up to eight characters. You could put your initials, a special date, or just a word, like “love.”

Lingerie from Agent Provocateur is more like a gift for both of you.

Speaking of super sexy stuff, how about an intimate tantric workshop? Learn how to reach full orgasmic potential through mindful breathing, lifeforce energy, and raising Kundalini energy with vocal toning of the vagus nerve. Little too titillating? There’s also a Sensual Yoga Online Class.

Get freaky in the boudoir with the Le Wand’s Chrome Little Pleasures set. Palm-sized for personal pleasure, these powerful toys pack a passionate punch. Le Wand Point features a “rumbly motor and contoured shape.” While fan-favorite Bullet “comes with a removable textured silicone sleeve and ring for added pleasure.”